Wednesday, January 30, 2008

Recent happenings

Next exam on 28/2/08 , stress !!!
Hopefully i pass it!
Anyway new work place rocks ,
Yesterday my dear cousin came over after work , brought me to this JAP restaurant near BOAT QUAY , the raman is one of the best i have tried , costing around 10 dollars each bowl.
After tat went for a drink at chamber 82 .

Today went for makan at my humble house at the esplanade nice sia , treat from the manager.
1 pax 100 plus dollars , stress !!!

Anyway new year coming , i have already planned to do spring cleaning on sat liao !!!
Must get it done !!!
Ray

Wednesday, January 23, 2008

The First time i Drove a Mercs

Ya , Haven't have the time to blog ,
Was really busy at the new work place ,
I am now at Elphis Finance Pte Ltd as a Financial Adviser though i still have to finish my M9 paper then can be considered one.
Right now it's all learning about the ropes of the job .
Anyway was in office today then boss called asked me help him park his car cos he has a meeting to rush to , then the other FA who was suppose to guide me and teach me the ropes haven pass his driving yet so no choice i had to go.
Got in and was driving of the road of Mosque street but no available lots.
Slowly and eventually i reached the end and had to made a left turn to the Main road.
And along the way believe me , i was getting so much stares from other drivers not becos i was a very lousy driver but more like wa so young drive mercs LOL shiok sia the feeling.
Anyway was kinda enjoying the comfort of the mercs then i realised i am lost WTF.
Lucky there is this GPS thingy in his car. SO cool !
Turn Left now !
Travel 200 meters then turn right etc etc
Anyway i got back to mosque street.
But i really sux at parallel parking sia . took me like forever to get it straight . Was being super careful , didn't wanna knock the car in front and behind.
Finally got the car in but then how to stop then engine sia , so different from normal cars.
Had to call weitan , ask him how to turn off engine , he said nvm i walk down and see (his office is 5mins from mine)
He just reached then we saw this engine off/on on the gear LOL
Felt so sua gu sia but it was really damn fun lar.

Ray

Friday, January 18, 2008

Super man dat Ohh

Finally i passed my M8 after my 2nd try ,
So happy.
Gonna start work soon , New work place , New boss , New people. So excited.
Hopefully this was a right decision.
Getting late , gotta catch some sleep.Needa be in office tomorrow , briefing from boss.Hmm.

Anyway came across this song quite cute haha. Just love it.

Ray

crank dat(soulja boy)
by soulja boy

Soulja boy up in this Ohh
Watch me crank it
Watch me roll
Watch me crank dat soulja boy
Then super man dat Ohh
Now watch me yooooouuuu!
(crank dat soulja boy)
Now watch me yooooouuuu!
(crank dat soulja boy)
Now watch me yooooouuuu!
(crank dat soulja boy)
Now watch me yooooouuuu!
(crank dat soulja boy)
[Verse 1:]
Soulja boy up in this Ohh
Watch me lean and watch me rock
Super man dat Ohh
Then watch me crank dat robocop
Super fresh, now watch me jock
Jocking on them hataz man
When i do dat soulja boy
I lean to the left and crank dat thang
(now yoooouuuuu!)
I'm jocking on yo
(jockin yo)
And if we get the fightin
Then i'm ... on yo
(on yo)
You could catch me at yo local party
as i crank it everyday
Hataz get mad cuz"i got me some bathin apes"
[Chorus x2]
Soulja boy up in this Ohh
Watch me crank it
Watch me roll
Watch me crank dat soulja boy
Then super man dat Ohh
Now watch me yoooouuuu!
(crank dat soulja boy)
Now watch me yoooouuuu!
(crank dat soulja boy)
Now watch me yoooouuuu!
(crank dat soulja boy)
Now watch me yoooouuuu!
(crank dat soulja boy)
[Verse 2:]
I'm bouncin on my tooooe
Watch me super soak dat Ohh
I'ma pass it to arab
Then he gone crank it up fo show (show)
Hataz wanna be me
Soulja boy, i'm the man
They be lookin at my neck
Sayin its the rubberband man (man)
Watch me do it (watch me do it)
Dance (dance)
Let get to it (let get to it)
Nope, you can't do it like me
dope, so don't do it like me
Foe, i see you tryna do it like me
Man that Dance was ugly
[Chorus x2]
Soulja boy off in this Ohh
Watch me crank it
Watch me roll
Watch me crank dat soulja boy
Then super man dat Ohh
Now watch me yooooouuu!
(crank dat soulja boy)
Now watch me yooooouuu!
(crank dat soulja boy)
Now watch me yooooouuu!
(crank dat soulja boy)
Now watch me yooooouuu!
(crank dat soulja boy)
[Hook:]Im to fresh off in this Ohh
Watch me crank it
Watch me roll
Watch me crank that roosavelt
And super soak that Ohh [x5]
Im to fresh naw watch me doo it
Watch me shuffle
Watch me Yoou
Watch me crank my soulja boy
Now Super man doo it [x3]
[Chorus]
Soulja boy up in this Ohh
Watch me crank it
Watch me roll
Watch me crank dat soulja boy
Then super man dat Ohh
Now watch me yoooouuuuuu
(crank dat soulja boy)
Now watch me yoooouuuuuu!
(crank dat soulja boy)
Now watch me yoooouuuuuu!
(crank dat soulja boy)
Now watch me yoooouuuuuu!
(crank dat soulja boy)
aaaaaaaaah
(yooooooouuuuuu!)

Monday, January 14, 2008

Domestic violence in Singapore:a ten year comparison of victim profile

Ever wondered , domestic violence was occuring more often in Chinese , malays , indians or others.

Ever wondered , what was the age group that committed the most domestic violence ?

Were they educated ?

Male ?

Female ?

Click here

Ray

虹彩妹妹

Putting this up for the K1 girl at the tuition centre

Ray

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朱安禹-虹彩妹妹
(从前从前有一个小女孩她是彩虹的妹妹叫做虹彩
有一天她偷偷跑出去玩结果迷路了!
这个时候呀出现了一个怪叔叔她该怎么办呢?)
虹彩妹妹嗯唉哟长得好那么嗯唉哟
樱桃小嘴嗯唉哟一点点那么嗯唉哟
三月里来桃花儿开哥哥妹妹相亲相爱
八月中秋月儿正圆想起了妈咪心甜甜
左拍拍右拍拍大家双手举起来
左跳跳右跳跳男生女生一起跳
左看看右看看小心马路如虎口
左瞧瞧右瞧瞧平交道前停看听
(男声:小朋友跟叔叔一起去游乐园玩好不好?
孩声:不好不好妈妈说不能跟陌生人出去玩走开啦)
跨马步深呼吸握紧拳头打出去
左飞拳右飞拳看我无穷的力气
跨马步深呼吸张大眼睛看仔细
左旋踢右旋踢快把坏人踢出去

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摸出一只大恐龙
东边摸摸西边摸摸巧手变装 kuso
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东边摸摸西边摸摸准备momo了哟
罐头和蛋壳是我创意好朋友
无纺布加亮粉变出bling的彩红
毛球做的机器人快点动一动
蜡笔和胶水就能show出我的梦


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小小的世界充满大大希望
拥抱着全部的梦想
实现愿望一起飞翔
爱就在你身旁
烦恼的时候我们一起渡过
成绩不够一起练功
温暖的手
幸福的手
永远是好朋友
momo momo带我去飞翔
实现你心中所有的梦想
momo momo带我去飞翔
背上快乐的翅膀
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不怕困难一起勇敢去闯
momo momo带我去飞翔
给我无敌的力量

Wednesday, January 9, 2008

Days passed , News around us

o.O been a short while since the last update.
So many things happened ,

Seeing a peeing tom at the tuition centre , he got lucky and got away.And no i didn't go to the girls toilet to tell the people inside , someone was peeping at them.
Anyway gonna report that to the police tomorrow with mabel , she saw this guy squatting outside the tuition centre,And she thinks he wanna rape her .

Then i found this woman's panties in the rubbish bin outside the man's toilet at the tuition centre, i took a pic of it wanting to put it up here but my gf was like dun lar very bad lor .So ok.
But the fun part is trying to figure out whose panties it was . And kinda freaky to think that some one in the building doesn't have her panties on.

Some interesting news i found rather interesting

News of the Death of local actor , MC KING
Celebrity-studded farewell for 'MC King'
HUNDREDS of people turned up to bid farewell to Singaporean comedian Jimmy Nah on Monday at a funeral that was both tearful and filled with song.
Some 50 celebrities were there, including MediaCorp artistes Chew Chor Meng, Thomas Ong, Zheng Geping, Marcus Chin, Aileen Tan, Huang Shinan and Pan Lingling.
It was held at the void deck below his Cassia Crescent HDB flat near Old Airport Road.
Before the funeral started, the stars sang to Nah, serenading him with his favourite karaoke songs. Many artistes wept as they sang.
Nah, who went by the nickname MC King, experienced breathing problems while at home last Friday afternoon.
He was sent to Tan Tock Seng hospital where he died. He was 40.
Monday's ceremony of Buddhist rites began at 11am. At about noon, Nah left on his final journey to Mandai Crematorium.
There, stars took turns to go to the podium to pay tribute to their friend.
Nah earned the nickname MC King after a malingering character he played in the 1990 Mandarin sitcom Friends Next Door.
But in real life, he was nothing like his malingering on-screen persona.
A graduate from the then-Singapore Broadcasting Corporation Drama Training Course in 1989, he had appeared in more than 60 local Chinese drama series, English sitcoms, variety shows and stage plays.
Source-Asiaone
Rest in peace , bro.

Ex-teen actor starts jail term for insubordination in NS
By David Boey
FORMER teen actor Marcus Ng Yi Loong began his one-week jail term on Tuesday after he failed in his appeal to get the sentence for insubordination quashed. -- ST PHOTO: LIM SIN THAIFORMER teen actor Marcus Ng Yi Loong, 21, began his one-week jail term on Tuesday after he failed in his appeal to get his sentence for insubordination quashed.The High Court on Tuesday upheld the jail sentence meted out by a Singapore Armed Forces (SAF) court martial in July last year. He was also reprimanded by a Military Court of Appeal for being rude to his superior.This is the second time he has been hauled up since he started his military service in September 2006.Ng, who holds the rank of Private, is perhaps best-known as the rebellious teen in the TV sitcom Phua Chu Kang.Ng's troubles in the SAF began in October 2006 when his superiors at the SAF Medical Training Institute slapped him with four charges for offences including not obeying orders.In February last year, while he was being investigated by the SAF legal process, Ng chased and argued aggressively with a 50-year-old woman Warrant Officer in his unit's Operations Room.A Master Warrant Officer, a trained Commando, saw the altercation and intervened.Ng rudely shrugged off the Master Warrant Officer's hand when he tried to calm the Private.For this, Ng faced two more charges: one for insubordinate behaviour after the Operations Room argument, and another for improper conduct.Last July, an SAF court martial found him guilty of these charges and sentenced him to seven days jail at the SAF Detention Barracks for each charge.Unhappy with the sentence, Ng lodged a Notice of Appeal - a legal right for all SAF serviceman to seek redress - and was granted a hearing by a five-person panel chaired by Justice Choo Han Teck.In the meantime, Ng was fined $500 for two of the earlier charges and acquitted on the other charges.On Tuesday, Ng's defence lawyer, Mr Wendell Wong from Drew & Napier, said a jail term was 'the harshest punishment I've ever seen for this sort of offence'' and urged the panel to quash the convictions or impose a fine instead.But Mr Luke Tan, head of Military Law at the Ministry of Defence, argued: 'This is akin to a case where a person is on bail. Has he learnt anything from it? No, he goes one up and goes after two other officers.''It would be inappropriate to give a little slap on the risk by imposing a fine as that would be of little consequence to him.''Some 25 people, including Ng's mother, Madam Florence Tan, 58, were in court when the panel reached a unanimous decision to uphold the first charge and reduce the second sentence to a reprimand.He appeared teary-eyed when led away to begin his sentence.

All i can say is hello brother , army is not a place to do what you want and as you wish.
It's a place where you learn about discipline !
Being childish and immature wouldn't get you anywhere.
Though i already left the "Regular Army Life"
It changed me and made me learn how a better person.
You should go to the doctor and declare yourself gay.
They will send you to the SAF drama school , isn't that what you like.
No offence of whatsoever , i loved watching your sitcoms
But i simplily cannot accept faggots who cannot understand what is right and what is wrong in the military.And let your emotions get the better of you.
Hope your DB holiday will help you wake up your idea.
Learn to respect bro, they are not Warrant officers for no reason.

Dog shoots & kills Texas hunter (Yeah , now i call tat a dog trained to kill) LOL
Wed, Jan 09, 2008
AFP
CHICAGO - AN overexcited dog accidentally shot and killed its owner on a goose hunting trip in Texas, authorities said on Tuesday.
Mr Perry Price, 46, had just shot a goose and went back to his pickup truck to let his dog out to go find it in the brush.
He leaned over the bed of the truck and lay his shotgun down inside as he unhooked the tailgate, his hunting companion told investigators.
'When the dog got to jumping around it went off,' deputy Nacheal Bonin of the Chambers County Sheriff's Department said.
The shotgun pellets went through the truck's tailgate and struck Mr Price, a high school teacher and avid hunter, in the thigh.
His friend rushed Mr Price to a hospital just a short distance away but the pellets had severed an artery and Mr Price could not be saved.
He was pronounced dead at 6.20pm on Saturday.
'It just caught him in the wrong area. It's a freak accident,' Deputy Bonin said.
There will be no further investigation because the gun was covered with the chocolate Labrador Retriever's muddy paw prints, she added.
It's not uncommon for hunters to be shot by their dogs.
A pack of hunting dogs shot an Iowa man in the leg as he went to retrieve a fallen pheasant in October.
He had put his gun on the ground to climb a fence and retrieve the fallen bird. But the dogs followed him too closely, stepping on the gun's trigger before he managed to get over the fence.
He was badly injured when 100 to 120 pellets of birdshot hit him square in the left calf but survived the incident.

ICA officer jailed for helping hubby commit graft
She helped husband commit corruption by endorsing Thai woman's passport to extend stay.
Elena Chong
Mon, Jan 07, 2008
The Straits Times
A FORMER Immigration and Checkpoints Authority officer was jailed for three months on Monday for helping her husband commit corruption by endorsing a Thai woman's passport to extend her stay here.
Kavitha Manikam Kalavanan ,27, was an ICA specialist attached to Woodlands checkpoint when she intentionally aided her husband, Mr Thanaraj Retinam, by granting a 14-day stay for Thai national Vanida Yamyen on Oct 7, 2002. In return her husband received a $30 bribe from Vanida's boyfriend, Mr Salva Kumar.
A district court heard that while working at Orchard Towers, Mr Retinam frequented the then Top Ten Disco at the Orchard Road building, and got to know Mr Kumar, a bouncer.
When Mr Kumar failed to get his girlfriend's stay extended at the ICA headquarters, he told Mr Retinam who said he had a friend working at the Woodlands checkpoint, and that he could help the foreigner make a "U-turn'' trip by taking her to Johor Baru and then back to Singapore in return for petrol money for his car. Mr Kumar agreed.
On Oct 7, 2002 before Mr Retinam took Vanida to Johor Baru and made a "U-turn'' trip back, he called his wife to check which booth she was stationed at.
He then drove his car to her booth for immigration clearance. Vanida's passport was endorsed with the two-week extension.
A few days later, Mr Kumar handed $30 to Mr Retinam at the Top Ten Disco.
A second charge was taken into consideration.
Kaviatha's lawyer Rakesh Vasu said his client, a mother of three, committed the offence out of sheer foolishness and out of respect for her husband.
She could have been fined up to $100,000 or jailed for up to five years or both for the offence.

What can i say , the power of LOVE makes one blind and foolish at times.

Two held over sex DVD
JOHOR BARU, Malaysia: A 29-year-old woman and a 50-year-old man have been detained for allegedly distributing the sex DVD involving former Health Minister Datuk Seri Dr Chua Soi Lek.
Johor Police Chief Deputy Comm Datuk Hussin Ismail said the woman, a beauty salon owner, was arrested near her shop in Taman Bukit Perdana, Batu Pahat, at 2.30pm on Thursday.
He said police seized one DVD and three VCDs and a laptop during the arrest.
"We believe this is not the woman in the video," he told pressmen after the promotion ceremony for 655 police personnel at the police headquarters here yesterday.
The woman has been remanded until Monday, he said.?\
The man, a farmer, was detained in Batu Pahat yesterday in connection with distributing the video.
The man was expected to be remanded today, he said.
DCP Hussin also confirmed that police had recorded Dr Chua's statement.
"We have not recorded statements from others," he said.
DCP Hussin said the Bukit Aman Forensics Unit was assisting state police with investigations in Batu Pahat.
He said the case was being investigated under Section 292 of the Penal Code for distributing and possessing material containing pornographic elements.?
When asked whether hotel workers had a hand in the sex video, DCP Hussin said he did not want to speculate.
He said those who had the DVD should surrender it to the police or destroy it.
"It is an offence to keep such a DVD, including transferring the video to a computer," he said.
Asked if they knew the identity of the female in the video, DCP Hussin said it was still under investigation.
Ex Health Minister Datuk Seri Dr Chua Soi Lek , What exactly was his offence again ?
Not his fault to be wanted to be filmed.
Nothing wrong about the sex part , but the part i think he's wrong is that he's not really single ?
100%的男人想过要偷吃,10%的男人真的有偷吃,只有1%的男人偷吃,还不会被抓到,你有机会成为这样男人中的精英吗?
Click here to learn how to not get caught 偷吃.
Poor Dr Chua Soi Lek he belongs to the 10%.

61 China women held over vice
Sat, Jan 05, 2008
The Star
KUALA LUMPUR, Malaysia: Police detained 61 Chinese nationals in a vice raid at a food court in Jalan Pasar here yesterday.
City deputy OCCI (intelligence and operations) Asst Comm Ramli Mat Arshad said police detained the women believed to be involved in vice activities.
He said police also detained 16 men aged between 25 and 45 of whom 14 were believed to be their customers, while another two were detained as they tried to stop the raiding team from carrying out their duties.
ACP Ramli said that six of the women did not have passports while the others entered the country with social visit visas .
He said that initial investigations showed that the women acted as patrons at the food court and picked up and negotiated with their male customers there before adjourning to nearby hotels to carry out their illegal activities.
He said the food court was famous for having foreign women soliciting for sex.
The police raided it 21 times last year and detained 90 women from China and one from Indonesia.

When would they find out that if there is demand , there will be supply LOL.
Anyway cool marketing strategies !
Jus don't do it in singapore's food court , get a proper lisense and go to work at geylang (Good Career advancement)

Housewife fights off rape bid
Mon, Jan 07, 2008
Dungun, Malaysia: A 42-year-old housewife put up a fierce fight and managed to fend off an armed intruder who wanted to rape her.
Although she escaped unhurt in the 6.30am incident on Saturday.
The woman was alone in her house in Jalan Delima, Taman Paka Wangsa, when she was awakened by noises coming from the kitchen.State CID deputy chief Superintendent Khairi Ahrasa said when she went to check, she was confronted by the man, who had a scarf over his face.He threatened her with a knife and told her to hand over her gold chains and handphone.
He then told her to remove her pyjamas but the woman refused.A scuffle ensued and as she struggled with the man, the scarf came off and he fled.Police are now looking for the suspect, believed to be the woman's 23-year-old neighbour.

LOL Obviously , he is not tat professional , Lucky for that 42 year old.
Hmm but the attempted rapist is like 23 and the woman 42.
Hmm ... Werid fantasy.
Sounds like the case in pulau ubin the 2 guys who rob , and rape the old woman.

Contraband cigarettes hidden in secret compartment seized
ABOUT $40,500 worth of contraband cigarettes were found hidden in a Malaysian-registered lorry's secret compartment on Monday evening.
Immigration and Checkpoints Authority officers at Woodlands noticed the freshly-painted rivets on the container lorry and ordered further checks.
They found the inner length of the container significantly shorter than its exterior.
A total of 450 cartons of duty-unpaid cigarettes were found hidden at the front of the container, just behind the driver.
The 36-year-old Malaysian driver has been arrested.
He claimed that the 'job' was given to him by loan-sharks whom he owed RM30,000 (S$13,135).
He would be paid RM$900 if his delivery was successful.
The Singapore Customs is investigating the case further.
First time offenders can be fined up to a maximum of 20 times the amount of duty evaded.
For second or subsequent convictions, offenders can be jailed for up to two years, as well as being fined. The offenders also face further fines based on the amount of GST evaded.

Aww the business at geylang road side selling contraband gonna be bad.
Got demand but no supply haha.Try more creative ideas to smuggle ba.
Singapore customs are too clever for your little magic trick.

Mother, daughter charged with abusing Indian maid
Elena Chong
Tue, Jan 08, 2008
The Straits Times
A MOTHER and daughter pair were charged in court on Tuesday with abusing their Indian national maid at their Hougang home.
R. Bagavathi Ammal , 66, is accused of slapping Ms Savariyarantham Amalorpavamary, 26, twice on her left cheek while her 37-year-old daughter, Murukas Vari Rathika Ramasamy, is accused of slapping the maid on the right cheek on Oct 18, 2006.
Two days later, the pair allegedly caused hurt to the maid in a bedroom. Bagavathi is said to have used her leg to press onto the victim's left leg while her daughter, a maid agent, allegedly kicked the victim's back near her hip and slapped her on the left side of her face.
Murukas also faces another charge of slapping her on the right cheek that day. Both were represented by lawyer Thangavelu, who sought an adjournment of the case The two will be back in court again on Feb 5.

They always say , parents are the child's role model. SO true . The mother slap left cheek, daughter slap right cheek.
Haiz , Stop giving singapore a bad name.
Soon other countries who provide their maids will stop sending their people to singapore , then how ?
Singapore Not the Fine country !
Singapore The maid Bully !
Anyway heard from my mom , my 5th auntie's maid was caught by her going on a date with her bf , hmm i think they are allowed to have bfs right , just not allowed to be pregnant . Or something like dat.
>Anyone wanna enlighten me ?
Anyway this news machiam bollywood movie LOL.
Accuse , indians , Victim , indian , Lawyer, indian . hmmm.
(to my indian friends sorry no offence k)
Judge ?

Clerk blackmailed into sex
KUALA LUMPUR, Malaysia
A man, who had been purportedly harassing and blackmailing his former girlfriend for sex, has been arrested.
City CID chief Senior Asst Comm II Ku Chin Wah said the man in his 30s was arrested in the city on Thursday evening and has been remanded. R>The man had allegedly harassed and blackmailed his former girlfriend Liew Mei Ling, 24, into having sex with him after they broke up in July last year.
She claimed he said he had a video recording of them performing various sexual acts.

She ended the relationship and hoped to see the last of him but instead, her ex-boyfriend started harassing her and blackmailing her for sex.
Liew Mei Ling, 24, said her ex-boyfriend has been forcing her into having sex with him after they broke up in July last year.
She claimed she was being blackmailed because he allegedly said he had a video recording of them in various sex acts.
"I told him to never call me again after the break-up, but he did and threatened to distribute the video recording and pictures of our lovemaking if I did not oblige," said Liew, an administration clerk.
The threats: Liew showing Chong a picture of her phone with the threats in the form of SMS in Chinese.Liew claimed she ended the relationship when she found out he was already married.
Their relationship started in April 2006.
Since the split, Liew said she had seen her ex-boyfriend on several occasions and each time, the sex took place in her house.
"Even when we were together, it was always at my house. I never thought there would be recordings and pictures because he never brought any equipment or cameras with him each time he visited," she said, adding that she had not seen the video and photos.
"I am not aware of the existence of the recordings but I am scared," said Liew, who lives with her sister and mother in Setapak.
The ex-boyfriend also threatened to get guys to rape her if she did not give in to his sexual demands, and claimed the recording was a form of art.
Finally, unable to handle the situation anymore, she lodged a police report last month.
The threats continued and she claimed to have even received many SMSes from strangers, asking if she provided sex.
Liew sought help from MCA Public Services and Complaints Department head Datuk Michael Chong, who said, "People should be more careful and not be lured into such 'acts' or so-called art.
"Even the smallest gadget could be a camera. Be careful."

Hope he goes to jail for the black mail , and get sexual haress in side the cell by other prisoners every night.

RaY
*Failed my 8th Jan exam sianz , next exam on 17th Jan Jia you Jia you !!!

Wednesday, January 2, 2008

Some thoughts

很多人都說
和年紀大的人交往可以得到許多呵護
很多事情並不是絕對也不代表年紀相近的情侶,
男生就不懂得體貼
所謂的呵護或許是他經歷的人生
比自己多閱歷豐富可以保護對方
但不代表每個人都可以拿捏得很好
年紀小或許許多事未經歷不了解
但也不絕對所有都一定幼稚
很多事情不能主觀下結論
因為人往往看不見自己
年紀大的人不見得就不會說氣話
年紀大的人不見得每每吵架不會把分手掛嘴邊
年紀大的人不見得不會鬧脾氣意氣用事
年紀大的人不見得感情上就是處於上位
如果因為年紀大一開始的相處就必須誰該廳誰的
兩個人就失去了溝通的基礎
兩個人在一起是單純之間有感情進而深交
每個人原本就生在不同環境
不同背景
不同教育
不同個性
原本就需要彼此包容互相體諒
如果只有單方面改變去配合一方的話
就會變得辛苦
如果時時都只想改變對方的話
那愛他的理由是什麼?
有心交往
就不會時時刻刻針對對方缺點不停的鑽洞
我覺得應該是多看對方優點生活上的小細節
如果要如此挑剔每一刻都會變得戰戰兢兢
為什麼男人不會認為自己亂丟襪子有錯
總之了解對方之後去包容
頂多花幾秒鐘幫他放好就好
同樣的女人也會希望男人包容一些事情
因為人是互相的
在現實社會中無法做到完全平等
但相處上不是關係懸殊的誇張
久而久之感覺會變味
問題也會愈多
誰不希望好好過日子
誰不希望甜蜜
人常常會因為自認自己懂很多說話就不自覺的大聲說話
每個人總有缺點
只是是否願意去看見
每個人都需要最基本的尊重
兩個人交往沒有誰比較了不起而是誰懂得"用對心"去經營

最重要的是人一定要及急面对人生,
不要遇到一点点错则就决定放弃.

Ray