Monday, December 31, 2007

The Unknown Man's Cave

Woman , If u realise ur boyfriend or husband becomes very distant , very quiet Seems like not interested and don't wanna communicate.
It could be he's under stress.

Guys simplily cannot understand the logic of a problem shared is a problem halved.
Guys need a "cave" cos they need a space or time where he is basically left alone and undisturbed.
Irritating remarks and constant asking wun help , so Girls quit the nagging. Man wun listen if they are in the "cave" mode.
Give him some time to reorganise his thoughts and solve his problems. If he is willing he would gladly ask u for advice. Notice i used the word advice not asking for solutions.
Guys never like to be given solutions , it makes them feel like they are weak . But if ur bf or husband is willing to share everything with you and tell u his thoughts , u wun have to worry so much.

It is when he tries to share and u dun bother to listen , tat's where problems will arise. Same thing for woman , if ur bf or husband dun bother to listen , u start to wonder if things will work out nicely . Though most of the time Since ancient times LOL , Man Simplily cannot listen.

Still dun understand why Adam took the forbidden fruit from eve. LOL
The way to a man's heart is thru his stomach LOL.

Ray

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